good point dave.

just now, my coworker asked me, "how's it going? the big day is coming up pretty fast, eh?" i mumbled something like, "thanks dave, thanks for reminding me i have 4 weeks left and still have lots of things to do."

and then he said to try not to get worked up on the small things. people getting married tend to focus on the small things in order to avoid thinking of the BIG THING, ie. the life altering moment which is getting married.

that is so true. i think i'm (and i'm sure jason as well) a bit freaked out about knowing that i'm getting married and my life is forever going to change on September 27th. so of course the easiest thing to do is detract my attention from that, by focusing on small details no one else will care about once the day is done.

he also said that it's ok if i start drinking at work to cope with the stress - it's expected. they'll just all point and whisper about me behind my back. LOL

4 weeks. technically we have 10 days to do anything because jason's only day off is Sunday and Tuesday, but Tuesday evening only. we still need to get a cake, get the groomsmen their outfits, take dance classes, figure out the music for the ceremony and reception, create a slideshow, so many things to do.

haha! i'm doing it again.

where's my kilkenny.